Tips For Paris First-Timers

Woman in purple coat with red hair, looking towards the Eiffel Tower on a cloudy day

“Paris is always a good idea” is an expression I have heard many times and thought of as cliché. Is it really that amazing, or is it just a place everyone wants to love? After missing an opportunity to visit as an end-of-highschool trip (I went to Greece for a month instead…no regrets there) I figured I would eventually get around to it, but there was no rush.

Boy oh boy was I pleasantly surprised by the City of Light. After a rocky start, we had the most amazing three days. We had some potential disasters, and made some bad decisions, but I can now confirm that yes, Paris is always, always, always a good idea. My tips for Paris first-timers will help you to avoid the messes and enjoy all the city has to offer!

For a recap of this trip, visit a detailed itinerary of Highlights of Paris in 48 Hours!


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Locks of all kinds strung together, one of them in the middle has a picture of the Eiffel Tower and reads "Just Married"

Tips for Paris First-Timers

Train tickets do not book themselves

Winding down our disastrous time in London we had to catch a high-speed train to get to Paris. It is a relatively quick train, a fairly painless endeavour, and still cheaper than flying. All of the above is true if you have train tickets! Somewhere between intense wedding planning, working full-time and mapping out a honeymoon we forgot the detail of buying our train tickets from London to Paris. We only realized this the day we were leaving London. If I am being completely honest it was only a few hours before departure time. Tip for a first-timer to Paris? If you’re traveling elsewhere, don’t forget to book your ticket!!!

Monument with marble columns and detailed inscriptions and statues, dedicated to Napoleon's military achievements

You can bask in the glory of the Arc De Triomphe de Carrousel while you wait for your Louvre tour!

We found some WIFI, and panicked at the thought that we had a tour the next morning in Paris, and we might not be there. We soon realized we would be paying way more for the tickets than we had originally budgeted for. Way more! We looked at flights which were now almost comparable in price, but ended up deciding that we would still take the train. Once the tickets were in our hands and all of our money was gone, it was smooth sailing.

By some miracle that night we actually made it to Paris, and our mistake soon became a distant memory. Trains, planes, and automobiles will not book themselves on a vacation. While it is much more fun to book tours and attractions, your transportation is what will get you to these places. Book it while you book tours, book it unreasonably early, it doesn’t matter. Just make sure you book it so you do not end up scrambling at the last moment like we did.

Tips for Paris First-Timers

When you’ve walked 20,000 steps, another 1000 won’t kill you (but a stop and go bus might)

Versailles & Eiffel Tower

Our first day in Paris was an absolutely wonderful whirlwind. In the morning we woke up bright and early on a Sunday, before the city was awake, to visit Versailles. This place is the picture perfect example of opulence and excessiveness and every single detail is beautiful. After returning to the city centre we climbed the Eiffel Tower and took in the city views. When all was said and done, we hit around 20,000 steps.

Front facade of a large building, covered all over the top in opulent gold leaf

I am still not over the amount of gold leaf that shimmered in the light at Versailles!

Woman standing in front of a painting, with a headset on

Château Versailles is full of French history!

Our Airbnb was a far walk, and we had learned our lesson about taking cabs in London. We decided to find a sightseeing bus and ride it back to the stop closest to us. We were not ready for the ride that was about to take place.

The Tour de France was happening that day, and while we realized that would mean a bit of a detour we were about to endure the slowest bus ride ever. We had unplanned stops every few minutes where our bus stayed stationary for minutes at a time. You are probably thinking that sucks but at least there was probably music. Hah. Every time the bus stopped the headsets played us some music. Oh, did I say some music? I meant basically one song. At one point a verse and the chorus of Edith Piaf’s “La Foule” looped over and over until I thought I was going to go crazy. I heard the song months later in a bakery in Seattle and could still sing along.

Gold fountain with four layers, with water spouting upwards from frogs and humans

One of the many fountains located in the grounds of Versailles: Latona’s Fountain

Just as we were discussing getting off the bus our mind was made up for us when our bus kicked all its passengers off at a stop. We took that a sign and headed home. An extra few thousand steps would have been so worth it in comparison to the hour we spent going nowhere fast. Tip for a Paris first-timer? Walking is almost always the better option. That is a lesson we learned and relearned many, many times throughout our trip.

View looking straight to the Eiffel Tower, one of the landmarks for first-timers in Paris

Tips for Paris First-Timers

French cheese is a highly acquired taste

Notre Dame

The next day, in between visiting Notre Dame and The Louvre, we stopped for lunch. With many options, I decided to fully embrace the French culture and order a cheese plate. Some types I had heard of, some not at all. As many others I love cheese and was excited to finally taste the real, authentic French kind.

Statue of Pope Jean Paul II outside of the facade of Notre Dame, before the fire in 2019

The exterior is just as beautiful as the interior. *Note: There was a fire that destroyed part of the facade in 2019. This photo is from July 2017.

Grotesque looks out over the city of Paris, including the Eiffel Tower, from the top of Notre Dame

The view from the top of Notre Dame

I got myself into a situation I could not have anticipated. It was a pretty plate full of cheese when it came and I chose the least strong looking one to ease myself into the experience. I decided upon the first taste that I was not a huge fan. No worries! There were four others to try. I was trying to hide my disappointment as I nibbled on one cheese after another. Even the blue cheese, which was the one I was very familiar with, was so strong I could barely gulp it down.

After my husband noticed that I was taking very small and cautious bites, he assured me I did not have to eat it and that he would help me. I switched to eating his food and he took some of my cheese. The look on his face as he took his first bite reflected what mine had probably looked like. Somewhere between confusion and horror.

Gargoyle looking out over rooftops of Paris in the distance

My favorite view from the Notre Dame was the view from the top!

Neither of us could finish the plate, and I ended up taking the remainder wrapped up in a napkin for fear of embarrassing myself as a silly tourist who could not handle strong French cheese. Advice for a first-timer who may not be used to the taste? French cheese is intense! Any time we had a chance to eat cheese on the rest of our adventures in France, we stuck to Swiss cheese for its very mild aftertaste.

Tips for Paris First-Timers

Everything about Paris is perfect, as long as you speak French

The Louvre

Aside from our funny little mishaps (and one large one which almost prevented us from getting there!) Paris was a dream compared to our nightmarish experience in London. Not only were we able to take in many major sights, we had some awesome tour guides.

Statue made of marble with one wing, and one missing arm

My favorite piece in The Louvre!

I somehow booked us on a small-group tour of the Louvre ( I still have no idea how I did that). If it’s your first time in Paris this large museum can be overwhelming, so I advise picking a small group tour!  We toured around with a guide who had grown up exploring the museum. It was by far the best tour I have ever been a part of. The guide had no issues navigating through the crazy crowds and always seemed to make room for us up front and centre of all paintings and exhibits.

There was also amazing food. We stumbled upon a boulangerie that opened in 1730 (the oldest in Paris!) We discovered an amazing pastry called a millefeuille and ate way too many. There were also other bakeries with top notch desserts and restaurants with French meals I actually enjoyed.

Storefront of Stohrer, the oldest patisserie in France

Serving up amazing pastries since 1725!

Yet when we asked various other people we met later on our trip what they thought of Paris, they were not huge fans. We realized through talking to them that speaking the language really makes for a different experience. I speak French (thanks university for teaching me one valuable life skill!) and so we were able to communicate with the people in their preferred language. Apparently that makes a world of a difference.

Three different pastries on plates, with cream on top of them

There is no lack of pastry shops throughout Paris: this is one of my favorites!

Au revoir Paris!

Our time in Paris was short but filled with great memories. I cannot wait to find an excuse to return. It was a city that made me realize that although an experience can be so overwhelmingly beautiful, there are still imperfect things that happen. You can almost miss out on the whole experience, you can get stuck on a bus that goes nowhere, and you can order food you are not prepared for. There is always something that is going to happen, which makes it all magical, truthful travel.

I hope my stories and tips for first-timers help you enjoy all the things Paris has to offer, without any of the added hassle!

Until next time,


A Truthful Traveler

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